Sunday, July 17, 2011

Pray It Off 05/26/2011 Preventing Diet Discouragement



Help In Preventing Your Diet Discouragement*

One of the biggest failures of the weight loss industry is that many plans don’t teach participants how to make lifelong changes. They focus on rapid shedding of pounds, often triggering an inevitable nosedive back into forbidden foods – hence, the lost weight is simply regained, leaving the dieter feeling disillusioned and discouraged.

No matter what type of diet plan you are following (or plan to follow in the near future), it is vital to approach it from a balanced, realistic
state of mind. Don’t fall into the trap of believing that you can follow a magical plan, drop the weight, and then return to your former eating habits. That’s a sure recipe for failure.

Instead, view your diet as a lifelong process of making wiser choices that will benefit your body in many positive ways, including shedding excess fat.
Below are a few helpful ways to do that:

1) Avoid making radical changes all at once.

As tempting as it may be to empty your kitchen cupboards and start from scratch, most people don’t have strong enough willpower to instantly change their eating habits from totally bad to perfectly good. Instead, strive to make more moderate changes gradually. If you are following a specific diet plan that doesn’t allow modifications, at least cut yourself a little bit of slack for the days when you might backslide into old habits.

2) Don’t worry about tomorrow and the next day.

Rather than worrying about how you will ever stick to your diet tomorrow and the next day and the next day and beyond, try not to put yourself under so much pressure. As tempting as it may be to control every little aspect of your weight loss journey, it’s not possible to do it all right now. Even more importantly, it’s impossible to predict and plan for the challenges you may face in the near future, so there is no sense worrying or obsessing about them.

3) Focus on what you can do right now.

Today is the only thing you have the power to change. Today, you can do your best to stick to your diet plan. Today, you can make sure to squeeze in that workout, even if you are busy. Today, you can feel proud of yourself for making some positive lifestyle changes that will benefit you for the rest of your life. Everything else will take care of itself.

These three small steps can do wonders in preventing diet discouragement, and help you to stay committed to your weight loss goals for the long haul.

The key lies in moderate changes, patience, and unwavering belief in yourself.
* http://tipstoburnstomachfat.com/dieting/help-in-preventing-your-diet-discouragement

Good News For Discouraged Dieters?*

CDC Research Says Maintaining Weight Loss Is Not All That Uncommon

(WebMD) Finally, some good news for disheartened dieters led to believe that the pounds they lose are destined to return: Far from being impossible, new research from the CDC suggests that maintaining weight loss is not all that uncommon.

Almost six out of 10 people who reported losing substantial amounts of weight successfully kept most of the weight off over a year's time in the study, published in the July issue of the American Journal of Preventive Medicine.


The finding is encouraging, and it suggests that weight maintenance is doable, CDC medical epidemiologist Edward C. Weiss, M.D., tells WebMD.

The CDC researchers used data from an ongoing national health study in an effort to better understand why some people who shed pounds maintain their weight loss and others do not. The new analysis included 1,310 adult study participants who reported weighing at least 10% less than their maximum lifetime weight a year before being interviewed. It was not clear from the data if the weight loss was due to dieting.

The researchers found that nearly 60% of the participants maintained their weight loss, gaining 5% or less of their weight back, while 33% reported more than a 5% weight gain.

People who lost the most weight tended to gain more back, with those losing 20% of more of their body weight more likely to regain than those who lost less than 15% of their highest weight.

One possible explanation is that those who lost larger percentages of their maximum weight may have had to make greater lifestyle changes that are difficult to incorporate and sustain, the researchers write. Another possibility is that those who lose larger amounts of weight may not be as concerned about relatively small regains.

Not surprisingly, people who didn't exercise regularly or who reported spending more leisure hours in front of a television or computer were associated with a higher likelihood of regaining weight. And Mexican-Americans were more likely than non-Hispanic whites or blacks to regain the weight they lost. A larger percentage of Mexican-Americans are
overweight or obese than non-Hispanic whites (72% vs. 63%), but the CDC study is the first to suggest a difference between the two groups with regard to regaining lost weight.

Because Mexican-Americans are disproportionately affected by obesity compared to non-Hispanic whites, more research on the factors influencing weight regain in Mexican-Americans is needed, the researchers write.

Weiss says many of the findings in the new report are consistent with those from the National Weight Control Registry, a database of more than 5,000 people who lost large amounts of weight and kept the weight off for at least a year.

Annual surveys of registry members offer important clues about how to maintain successful weight loss. Among the key findings from different surveys:


1. Successful maintainers tend to make changes to their diets that they can live with long term, rather than making major changes that are harder to sustain, and most combined calorie restriction with regular exercise.


2. Most registry members report eating breakfast every day.


3. More than half reported that they limited TV watching to less than 10 hours a week — less than half the TV viewing time of the average American.


4. Most reported weighing themselves regularly, either daily or two or three times a week.

*http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2007/06/05/health/webmd/main2890202.shtml

Overcoming Discouragement by Francis Frangipane* (Edited)

The Jews had been defeated by Nebuchadnezzar and, because of their long and extended rebellion to God, the Lord allowed them to be exiled to Babylon. Yet, now their appointed time of judgment had passed; it was time for the Lord's promise to be fulfilled. Indeed, He had assured them, "After seventy years...I will visit you, and perform my good word toward you, in causing you to return to this place" (Jeremiah 29:10 KJV).

Initiated by the fasting and prayer of the prophet Daniel, Israel had entered a season of divine visitation: men with both integrity and vision were raised up and financial provisions came. The display of divine grace had created an atmosphere of awe and excitement among the people of God - He was "causing [them] to return" to Israel!

It was a time of great miracles, supernatural provision and fulfilled prophecy. Yet even as the exiles resettled in Jerusalem and engaged in the work of restoration, we read: "Then the people of the land discouraged the people of Judah, and frightened them from building, and hired counselors against them to frustrate their counsel all the days of Cyrus king of Persia, even until the reign of Darius king of Persia" (Ezra 4:4-5).

Incredibly, in spite of the miracles, signs and provisions, simple discouragement neutralized their progress. Unbelievably, scholars say that their work stalled for nearly 20 years! Beloved, discouragement is an enemy that is both subtle in its attack and powerful in its ability to stop us. We must discern it when it comes and refuse to accommodate its influence when it speaks.

How Discouragement Enters- Every person with a vision from God will have serious opportunities to become discouraged as they reach for the fulfillment of their vision.
Indeed, just as Israel was given a promise from God and provisions to help their return, so the Almighty has given promises and provisions to us. Your vision may be for your personal transformation, or it may be a God-inspired desire to see your family or church brought into spiritual renewal. Yet, like the Jews, we can be just as vulnerable to discouragement and its effects.

How does discouragement gain access to our souls? The answer is simple: We start evaluating our lives based upon information compiled by our senses instead of assessing our position based upon the promise and help of God. However, I don't mean we are unaware of the difficulties of our faith assignment, but that God is good and He is not hindered by our present limitations.

Consider: when God promised Abraham a child in his old age, the Bible says he "contemplated his own body, now as good as dead since he was about a hundred years old, and the deadness of Sarah's womb." Abraham didn't deny the facts of life; without growing weak in faith, he "contemplated" his situation. "Yet, with respect to the promise of God, he did not waver in unbelief but grew strong in faith, giving glory to God." He was "fully assured that what God had promised, He was able also to perform" (see Romans 4:19-21). Discouragement comes when we only look at our circumstances without looking to the faithfulness and integrity of what God has promised.

Still, discouragement has infiltrated the minds of many. Knowing mankind's vulnerability to discouragement, Jesus taught His disciples a parable that, "at all times they ought to pray and not to lose heart" (Luke 18:1). The parable concerned a widow desperately seeking legal protection from an adversary, but she received no immediate help from her judge (see Luke 18). In spite of his resistance, however, she refuses to be discouraged from her quest; she persists until she gains her breakthrough.

The goal of Christ's teaching was to immunize His followers from discouragement; to "lose heart" is to become discouraged. Jesus assures us that God will hear us as we turn to Him in persistent prayer.

True Faith Takes Courage - We also need to know Christ is not just our Savior, but He also is the "author and perfecter" of our faith (Hebrews 12:2). In order for faith to mature, it needs situations where faith alone can sustain us. "Faith" is not merely a proper understanding of doctrinal issues; faith is the spiritual "substance of things hoped for; the evidence of things not seen" (Hebrews 11:1 KJV). We must not only possess accurate doctrines about faith; we must live by faith as well.

Indeed, there are times when, for faith to develop, we must trust God in spite of how things appear. Jesus often told people to take courage, for their faith had saved them (see Matthew 9:2; 9:22; etc.). There will always be times when, against the glaring face of a negative reality, true faith arises, appropriates courage and locks into the integrity of God's promise. We must let faith arise in the context of resistance. This is the faith that touches God's heart.

The enemy comes to discourage or remove the courage from our hearts, and thus causes us to withdraw into unbelief. To win our fight of faith, we must not surrender to discouragement. Yes, times will come when we will ask God for greater wisdom; certainly, we will adjust our attitudes and become both flexible and wiser as we process the faith assignment destiny has set before us. But we must not give up. We must fight. You say, "But Francis, I'm weary."

Yes, there are times when we all get weary. But we have the help of God with us. Consider His promise:

"Behold, My Servant, whom I uphold; My chosen one in whom My soul delights. I have put My Spirit upon Him; He will bring forth justice to the nations...He will not be disheartened or crushed..." (Isaiah 42:1-4).

Christ will be not "disheartened or crushed." Why? The Spirit of God "upholds" Him, and the Spirit of God upholds Christ in us as well. Are you God's servant? Then turn to Him and find new strength. You may be wounded or struck, but as we abide in Christ, we too will be neither "disheartened or crushed."

Dear one, there is a spiritual war raging, whether it is over the future of our world or the future of our souls, we cannot shrink back into unbelief. Let us be strong and of good courage. Let us seek God and find new strength in prayer. And let us never give in to the voice of discouragement.*http://www.intercession.addr.com/teaching/005_francis_frangipane.php


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Monday, July 4, 2011

Pray It Off 05/26/2011 Diet Discouragement



Discouraged

It was once announced that the devil was going out of business and would offer all tools for sale to whoever would pay the price.

On the night of the sale they were all attractively displayed, a bad looking lot. Malice, Hatred, Envy, Jealousy, Sensuality, and Deceit, and all of the other implements of evil were spread out, each marked with is price.

Apart from the rest lay a harmless looking wedge-shaped too, much worn and priced much higher than any of them. Someone asked the devil what it was.

“That’s Discouragement,” was his reply. “Why do you have it priced so high?”

“Because,” replied the devil, “it is more useful than any of the others. I can pry open and get inside a man’s conscience with that when I could not get near him with any of the other, and when once inside I can use him in whatever way suits me best. It is much worn because I use it with nearly everyone, as very few people yet know it belongs to me.”

It hardly needed to be added that the devil’s price for Discouragement was so high that it was never sold. He still owns it and is still using it.

Nihil Obstat William V. Agnew, S. J.
Imprimatur +George Cardinal Mundelein
Archbishop of Chicago


Affirmation: Don't Get Diet Discouragement*

No matter why you feel discouraged, it's never too late to get back on track with your weight loss plan. By: Judith Beck

Judith Beck, a highly respected leader in the field of Cognitive Therapy (also known as Cognitive Behavior Therapy, or CBT), brings her therapeutic touch to the problem of what to do when you find yourself getting discouraged on your diet.

Hi, I'm Dr. Judith Beck, the author of "The Beck Diet Solution."
Are you feeling discouraged and down about dieting? It's easy to go from discouragement to abandoning your diet altogether, so I'd like to suggest something for you to do.

First, it doesn't matter if you're discouraged because you strayed from your diet, because the scale went up, or because dieting just seems too hard.
To deal with your discouragement, you do the same thing. You think about what you'd say to your best friend if she were in the same situation.

First, I bet you'd have compassion for her. You'd probably say something like, "I'm sorry you're discouraged. But I don't want you to let this get you down! You're a wonderful person no matter what. And what the scale says is irrelevant to who you are."

If your friend strayed from her diet, wouldn't you say, "So you made a mistake. You're only human! You can't possibly be perfect. It doesn't mean you're bad or hopeless. You're supposed to make mistakes from time to time. Everyone does. What's important is what you do from here. Don't wait until tomorrow to get back to your eating plan. Start right this minute! You'll feel so much better if you do."

If your friend gained weight one week, would you want her to criticize herself? Would you want her to feel badly? Of course not. I bet you'd say, "Listen, if you gained weight because you didn't stick to your diet, all it means is that you have a problem you need to solve. It doesn't mean anything bad about you. It doesn't mean you can't diet. Let me help you figure out how to have a better week."

If she had stuck to her diet, it would be important for you to explain to her that the scale isn't supposed to go down every week. It may stay the same or go up because of hormonal reasons or water retention or other biological processes. You might encourage her by saying, "Just keep doing what you're doing. The scale will probably go down next week. If it doesn't, you can just try cutting your calories a little bit or increasing your exercise, and that should do the trick."

Finally, if your friend got discouraged because dieting just seemed really hard, you'd undoubtedly sympathize with her. It would also be helpful to find out if it seemed hard every minute of every day or just for relatively short periods of time on some days. You'd probably say, "I'm sorry it's been hard for you. Can I help you develop a plan for what you can do whenever it's hard—and that plan includes calling me!"

Learning to talk to yourself the way you would talk to your best friend is essential for dealing with discouragement. In fact, if you find yourself getting too self-critical, you might call your best friend and see what she has to say. I hope you'll try this!

*http://www.beliefnet.com/Health/Weight-Loss/2007/05/Affirmation-Dont-Get-Diet-Discouragement.aspx

How to Fight Discouragement When Dieting*
Losing weight can be very rewarding, but it can also be very discouraging. Sometimes we set goals that are not reasonable or simply don't follow a diet and exercise plan that will get results. Below are steps you can take to help fight discouragement.

(1) Give Yourself a Break - Don't bury yourself in guilt when you deviate from your diet and exercise plan. "Get over it" and get back on your plan the following day.

(2) You Have the Power - If you feel your eating habits are out of control, just remember .... YOU HAVE THE POWER. You will control food intake, food WILL NOT control you. Having a diet and exercise plan is vital for your success. If the eating plan you designed is too rigid, loosen up and allow yourself to eat more food, even more "light" desserts. This will get you back on track. After a few weeks, you can trim a few more things from your diet to lose weight.

(3) Stay Away From the Scale for 2 Months - One of the biggest disappointments is to jump on the scale after a week of dieting only to find that you have not lost any weight. Instead, concentrate on healthy eating habits and a good diet plan. After you have establish good eating habits for several months, then get on the scale. You will have lost substantial weight and discouragement will not creep in to sabotage your effort.

(4) Find a Diet Buddy - Join Weight Watchers or Take Off Pounds Sensibly (TOPS). Recruit a friend form work or home.

(5) Expect a Few Bad Days - Not every day will be perfect for eating and exercise. It's not what you eat wrong on any given day, but what you eat wrong over several weeks.

(6) Do Something! - The best way to fight discouragement is to take action! Don't be a victim. Analyze what triggered you to eat the wrong food. Acknowledge the problem and don't repeat the pattern. If you overate because someone made you mad, then acknowledge the problem, let it go and continue a good diet and exercise program the next day.

*http://www.strongshape.com/how-to-fight-discouragement-when-dieting.html

How to Fight Discouragement While Dieting*

A year into my "lifetime diet," I've discovered that there are days when I get discouraged. Sure, I've lost 45 pounds, I feel better, I have more energy, and people compliment me every day, but I still get discouraged. The ads and the tabloids are telling me to "LOSE 50 pounds in one month!!!" while restaurants offer ever larger platefuls of food.

When I started my new eating program (I don't call it a diet since this is a permanent eating change), I lost over 2 pounds a week. Now I lose 2 pounds a month. I hope to lose another 15 to 25 pounds - and it isn't happening quickly. So, yes, I do get discouraged.

Here's what to do during those "down days."


1. Why did you want to lose weight in the first place? to look better? To feel better? To live longer? Keep this before you at all times. Walking up a flight of stairs without working up a sweat IS worth it. So is wearing a bathing suit without feeling ashamed. Compare this to the fleeting satisfaction of a doughnut.

2. Remind yourself that this is a lifetime change, and this sort of change takes months and years, not weeks. Hopefully you're changing your lifestyle, not just trying to lose a few pounds by next week.

3. Don't eliminate your favorite foods altogether. This is important! There is no thought more discouraging than "I will never eat ice cream again," and no better way to make me go out and get a big bowl of ice cream!

4. Ignore the claims on the front pages of grocery store checkout magazines. Losing 20 pounds in 20 days is not permanent. Notice how they don't tell you how many pounds are gone a year later. Remind yourself that what you're reading about is called "yo-yo dieting," and leads to more and more frustration.

5. Remind yourself that you've learned a lot after all this time. You are much better able to defer eating, and get by with less food now. You feel fuller earlier in the day now. You are tracking your calories better.
6. If you're really discouraged, eliminate 100 more calories a day to speed things up, but do not go on a starvation diet. Maintain a MINIMUM number of calories as well as a maximum.

7. Add a few minutes of walking to your daily schedule, but do not go on an exercise binge. I am exercising in such away that it is sustainable for the rest of my life. Again, remember that you are not on a diet, but on a lifestyle change. This takes time, especially if you want these changes to be permanent.

8. Undoubtedly you've had to buy smaller sized clothing items. I hope you kept one pair of your "fat pants!" Go back and look at an old pair of pants. Try them on. Look at how far you've come already!

9. Ask your wife or husband if he or she notices the changes. Ask him or her to point out where they see it the most.

10. Ask yourself if there are any behaviors that are contributing to the problem. Are you getting enough sleep? Can you reduce your stress a bit? Are there emotional issues you're struggling with that are not diet-related? Talk to a counselor if your discouragement gets too strong.

11. Find a mantra, or short phrase, that you can repeat to yourself every day. I have a few - "hold the line," "steady on course," "you're in this for the long term," "you are winning, unless you decide to give up." You get the idea.

12. DO NOT GIVE UP. You CAN do this!

* http://www.ehow.com/how_5205451_fight-discouragement-dieting.html

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Excuses Sung by The Kingsmen



EXCUSES By the KINGSMEN

Excuses, excuses, you'll hear them every day.
Now the Devil he'll supply them, if the church you stay away.
When people come to know the Lord, the Devil always loses
So to keep them folks away from church, he offers them excuses.
In the summer it's too hot. In the winter, it's too cold.
In the spring time when the weather's just right, you find someplace else to go.
Well, it's up to the mountains or over to the beach or to visit some old friend.
Or, just to stay home and relax and hope some of the kin folks will drop in.

Well, a headache Sunday morning and a backache Sunday night.
But by work time Monday morning, oh you’re feeling quite alright.
While one of the children has a cold, "Pneumonia, do you suppose?"
Why the whole family had to stay home, just to blow that poor kid's nose.

CHORUS

Well, the preacher he's too young. Maybe he's too old.
Those sermons they're not hard enough. Sometimes they get too bold.
His voice is much too quiet-like. Sometimes he gets too loud.
He needs to have more dignity. Or, else he's way too proud.

Well, the sermons they're too long. Maybe they're too short.
He ought to preach the word now instead of "stomp and snort."
Well, that preacher we've got must be "the world's most stuck up man."
Well, one of the ladies told me Sunday, "Well, he didn't even shake my hand."